Monday 30 May 2016

Things People With Hemophilia and Bleeding Disorders Wish You Understood

Melissa McGlensey

Hemophilia is a rare condition where a person’s blood has a reduced ability to clot. About 400,000 people worldwide are living with hemophilia, and 400 babies are born with it each year, according to the Hemophilia Federation of America.
Perhaps because they are rare, hemophilia and bleeding disorders are often misunderstood conditions. With that in mind, The Mighty worked with two organizations, the Hemophilia Federation of America and Stop The Bleeding, to find out what people with the condition wish the world could understand.

This is what they had to say:

1. “Bleeding disorders are confounding and annoying when they act up. You can have months of no trouble, and then suddenly look as if you’re trying to avoid every outing, get together and birthday party… But I promise, it’s not personal.” — Carri Nease

2.“Hemophilia and incest are not related in any way… Also, we won’t bleed to death from a paper cut.” — Jeff Johnson

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3. “We know our disease and conditions better than the average doctor does.” — Karen Guertin

4. “It’s more common than you think.” — Deana J Woods

5. “If my son falls off a tree, he will need treatment… but the most important thing is that he still gets to climb trees.” — Jennifer Empson

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6. “Although hemophilia is often known as the ‘royal disease,’ it doesn’t mean everyone living with it is directly related to royalty.” — Rich Pezzillo

7. “Many of us in the community are willing to discuss our condition, and it does not prevent us from contributing to our communities.” — Donald Robert Fox

8. “It’s not only a male disease. I am a woman who is affected by the condition, along with two sons and a daughter.” — Yashica Washington
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9. “As a mom, I’m trying to let my baby be a ‘normal,’ active 2-year-old. However, if I seem to be on edge, it’s because every time he runs, jumps, falls or hits something, I get that gut-wrenching feeling — the feeling right before a car wreck.” — Brandi Alsip

10. “I love the question, ‘You still have that?'” —  David Melendez

11. “Our kids have bruises because they have a chronic disorder and not because they’re being beaten.” — William Wilson

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12. “No, your child cannot ‘catch it’ from my son.” — Gina Morris

13. “Just because you don’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. And, it can be painful.” — Misty King Woodhall

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14. “It’s different than necrophilia. (True story — I actually had to clarify this to a poor soul.)” — Rachel Miller Kroouze

15. “No, my boys won’t grow out of it.” — Theresa Laureen

16. “I don’t fake my injuries nor do I milk the fact that I’m hurt. I am as normal as the next person and only wish to be treated as such… I do not want pity.” — Justin Wallace

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17. “We have some of the best people in our community. We can do anything together.” — Luke Vannicola

18. “You have to be prepared for an emergency at all times.” — Katie Hoagberg Masog

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19. “My son doesn’t need to be bubblewrapped nor treated differently than my other son… don’t be scared.” — Samantha Francesca Costa

20. “That the impact of a bleeding disorder is so much more than the disorder itself and its physical complications. The impact is also emotional, psychological, educational, financial and relational.” — Rebecca Nastasia

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21. “It is hard to live with, and you cannot just take a pill to make it go away.” — Theresa Schuman

22. “Having hemophilia does not automatically prevent you from being active. It’s actually good for hemophilia patients to be active. Being active gains muscles, which protects joints, which helps [prevent] bleeds.” — Christy Reyes

23. “I’ve lived with ‘significant’ pain most of my life, and I’ve learned to manage it. Having a bleeding disorder doesn’t weaken me, it toughens me.” — Patrick James Lynch

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24. “Hemophilia isn’t being in a wheelchair, but it’s also not being immune to wheelchairs. It’s a complicated disorder that can randomly determine what life is like. One week can be spent resting in bed and using wheelchairs. Another can be running around playing soccer. I wish people understood that because it’s difficult to explain to strangers in chance encounters.” — Mark Kenny 

25. “It may have conquered my body but it shall not have my soul or my mind. Those remain mine.” — Marcus Lamarr Smith II



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3 comments:

  1. I'm 43 now and the questions that I still get asked regarding my condition I find sometimes.....well you know what I mean.

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  2. Correct bro . Being a haemophiliac does not mean you need to scare of normal people they cant hurt you without any reason and if they tried to hurt you either by physically or psychology then we all have rights to fight back . I spend my last 30 years to recognise this . People always hurts me and demoralised me but I stand on my decision . This is a strength only seen with haemophiliac patient not with all those normal guys who played dirty politics with me from my college days till now . This is where the biggest difference in us and them.

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  3. ALL THANKS TO DR WILLIAMS WITH HIS HERB MY WIFE WAS COMPLETELY CURED FROM HEMOPHILIA .
    Is my pleasure to comment on this site and i thank the admin of this site for his/her great work so far.one of the happiest moment in my life was when the doctor confirm that my wife is been free from this illness. this awesome moments makes me the happiest man on earth, I really don't know how to thank DR WILLIAMS for helping my wife get cured for over how many year of suffering from hemophilia. i came across DR Williams contact through a headline news on internet about how DR Williams help a woman to get cured of her hemophilia and so many other with similar body problem ,i contacted him and he told me how to get his herb,few day later he sent me the herbal portion which my wife take every morning for 28 days, and his medicine was able to cure her completely from hemophilia. and now she very mush okay without any side effects whatsoever, If you have hemophilia, you can contact him on his email address drwilliams098675@gmail.com for advice and for his product.

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